http://www.sodahead.com/fun/if-i-threw-you-a-surprise-birthday-party-what-color-would-make-you-feel-outstanding-on-this-day/question-1140709/ Here’s the great thing about being single (yes, I said great): first dates. Confused? Don’t be. I think first dates are great. And here is why. Weird shit happens. When else, except when you’re single, can you skip from one first date to the next? I like to call this being open to the element of surprise, a tool I often use in my Life Coaching practice (surprise! I do that too), that hasn’t exactly stemmed from my deep connection to the spirit world. You see, I’ve been on a lot of first dates, and have become acquainted with a little something that goes like this….surprise! I’m crazy, weird, lovely, angry, happy, a scientologist, an out of work actor, bald, a better…